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oh dear
okay so i dnt know if magick, spells or crystals can help wid this problem, but i need advice
i have been in a relationship wid my boyfirnd for 3 years. and about 2 months ago i had a house party. of course i invited my best mate, and her bf is my bf best mate. still catching on???
well anyways we alll had a little too much and my bf and best mate ended up having a little snog.
well anyway i went mad, (only cuz i was a lil drunk and slaped my bf and fell out with my best best) we all made up the next morning and 'pretended' nufin had happened
even tho we talked about it eventually, i neva told um how i could neva trust um again
well anyways, wot am saying is, it still hurts!!! im not ova it and i wont eva b. i love myboyfriend soooo much and i love my best mate, but when they are togeva i feel i have to watch them, this feeling only happens if they laugh with each other, or if i drink
what i need to know is, what do i do? i dont wana lose either of them, and im scared of saying anything incase i do lose them
ohh gosh, i need to get ova this,
its upsetting me now
:'( lol
dani
Hi dani! Sorry about your boyfriend and best friend treating you like that. Nobody can really tell you what to do as only you know how you feel, but if it was me I would definitely get a new boyfriend and best friend. I feel sure you have a lot to offer to the right person and there are plenty more who would be only too pleased to have you as a girl friend. Cheer up, it's their loss not yours.
thank you angel, i suppose your right, but as i said have been with him 3years. and he is my only partner.
i wonder if there is any spells to get over bad feelings....
controversial,
but i think the bad feelings you are encountering, are you knowing deep down that you need rid of this pair of losers!!!!!! free yourself and free your mind. you deserve better than that, you are too young to put up with this !! love isnt pain.
Hi' just thought I'd ask if you are still with the same boyfriend and even have the same best friend. How did it all turn out?
heya angel, and to answer your question, yes i am still with the same bf and yes im still best mates with the girl. we sorted out our differiences and i defo look at them in a dif light. i do still trust my bf, i know he wldnt do anything under the influence of drink. but i dont think he trusts me cux he thinks i will now cheat on him. i want because i dont believe in payback of that sorts.
my best friend will have to learn the hard way i guess, she has now cheated ( just by snogging) other guys whilst still with her same bf. one day she will lose poeple through her actions, but i will still be there for her as that what best friends are there for
thank you angel for asking it does mean alot
xxx dani xxx
Once trust is broken in a relationship to that extent, even with forgiveness, the trust bond can never really heal completely. If he would cheat on you, and your best friend would betray you like that, surely they don't deserve you. When you meet the person you are truly meant to be with, they will never hurt you like that. Don't put up with it!
xx
just thought i would inform you all as you have been great and quite supportive
but....
i dumped him!!! lol, and i feel sooo much beta lol
Hi Dani,
Back on the 1st July I got a message for you which I wrote down, which was to do with the topic of your boyfriend, ummed & arrd so much whether I should say anything & didn't, then angel1 asked you end of july & when you put your reply I thought oh well, now you've put your latest reply oh my god, sorry for talking in code but its your personal stuff. Wot do I do??
Love & Light xx